The problem with people these days, is that many people will recognize, and admit problems with themselves, but do either:
A) Absolutely nothing.
B)Encourage themselves to worsen, because they know that they aren't going to get any better.
Tolerence is a nice fancy word you know, do you know what it means? Well I can't exactly explain it in lamen's terms, but here's the gist, an example.
How much you can stand against an annoyance.
A lot of people seem to think that there are certain thing's that people, or myself will tolerate endlessly, that I'll always turn a blind eye, or just deal with it. other people do it themselves, you know what that does?
It caused you to feel like shit.
No you should have to tolerate anything we don't want to, so isn't it easier to- Throw away anything that annoys us? well unfortunately that doesn't work for personality traits, ideals, animals and family. You can't throw them away, you either need them, or you want something else from them.
Also understand, I am being incredibly hiporcrtical here, I have faults, problems that I won't deal with, such as my increasing weight, my poor diet, and my ability to let go. Can I tackle these issues? Probably. Will I? If I would, I would have done it by now. I rely on other people. that's my biggest fault. despite being independant and capable of supporting myself, I will always rely on the person next to me for that extra boost.
So what do you do. well It's be nice to tell yourself Just do it, except you know that isn't going to work. So you work together with someone. you talk, share, you team up and help each other. Only issue is when the other person talks about how you should help yourself, but never offers anything about how they plan on fixing themself, or accepting your help to help them.
So I've going to pretend everything before this part now is just ramble, and continue with what i was supposed to talk about.
TO be a better person follow these rules.
1: Remember nothing is impossible if you try
2:Nothing get's done if you don't apply effort, or wait for the world to give you what you want
3: never expect anything, from anyone.
4: Let the people around you help you.
Those are the 4 main points I can think of right now in my arrogant mood.
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